Passive or Aggressive?

First I want to apologize for not being on very much in the past few days. I've been very busy! Anyways, getting back into the swing of things I wanna talk about bedroom domeaner. Lately I've been contemplating whether it's better to be passive or aggressive in the bedroom. When I think of passive, in my opinion, I think laid back; Maybe likes to let someone else be in TOTAL control. Likes to be persuded. Aggressive, again in my opinion, is like the worker bee; has to take care of business.. is in total control. So that being said is it better to be passive or aggressive? Well, as we all know the dream person would be a perfect blend of both... but how often does that happen? Personally I can be aggressive, as you can probably tell... but I LOVE being chased. I like the cat and mouse feel to it. I think it's a turn on when he takes complete control. Anyways, sorry just some thoughts!