Sex and Marriage

I'm often puzzeled with the idea of sex and marriage. Before I was married I had a thriving sex life, which I'm sure most people can relate to. Now by saying thriving I don't mean I was with multi people or anything like that. Before marriage I had a few casual experiences and never with anyone that I'd just met! What kinda girl do you think I am?! lol. Those few relationship/friendships were great. Anyways, back to my original subject sex and marriage... Last night I happened to be in the shower when he got home from work. He knows, indirectly, that means I want him. I closed the deal when he peeked in to say hi, I told him I needed him to get in and wash my back. Anyways, unfortunately for me, the water had already started to go cold by the time he'd gotten in. But, I was still "hot" so I asked him to meet me upstairs. I made a dash for it, then he came. He stopped in the living room to get a new game going on the wii for our daughter. Thoughtful, he wanted to make sure she was tended to so we wouldn't get interupted by the sex police. Anyways, as he starts rubbing and feeling on me from behind, we here... "Daddy! I need your help!" and this went on multiply times til he went to help her with the game. He came back and we picked up where we'd left off... to my dismay it happened again within five minutes. At this point, he got up and I remember falling face down into the pillow thinking about my sex life before marriage and kids. It's definately true what you read in magazines and hear on tv... it's definately different! I'm not saying I'd ever give up my family for what I had, but it's nice to reminiece about it. Before we were married we fucked like rabbits! We broke two beds and there was hardly a day when we DIDN'T have sex! Somedays we;d have sex more then once!!! It was amazing!!! It slowed down after marriage. I remember about a month before the wedding I decided we needed to stop having sex because he'd really want me n our wedding night. Well... that lasted til we both got a little tipsey (he more then I) at our rehersal dinner. He insisting on coming home with me and... what do you know... it happened. Of course, ruining our wedding night, we weren't into having sex on our wedding night. Anyways, from that point on it's been WORK having sex. I think we've unlock a secert key though. I call it our "midnight rendevoux" because he'll get me up at like midnight/1AM and we'll have amazing sex on the couch... when the house is quiet. It's great! But of course, I still get frustrated... I told him last night, all I want for my birthday (which is coming up very fast) is a few hours of nothing but HIS attention. Marriage sucks when you have to plan things! I imagine this sort of things is what makes people have affairs... they're simple and you don't have to seek around your own house to be together. That and affairs, I'd imagine, are risky ... and that's fun! It's not always fun having to make dates/set plans to have sex. The spontinatity of it is appealing... right? Well, I'm not saying I'd like to have an affair though... just stating the obvious! Okay, I'm just rambling so I'm going to sign off for now! Chow!!