As a side thought...

So, I love the header that I have on here... but it's got me thinking a lot about one subject... Leather and Lace. I was wondering which catagory I fall in. I mean, is there such thing as someone being perfectly balanced part leather and part lace? Okay first, let's define Leather (In terms of bedroom talk) ... in my opinion as Samatha (Sex and the City), is someone that likes it hardcore, but not neccesarily into bondage or anything. Someone that just likes to fuck... maybe uses toys/porn... doesn't like the cute cuddle things about mattress play. Now, in my opinion Lace is like Charlotte... someone who probably likes to make love, likes it delicate... probably into silky nightgown, and cuddling. I think about it and I can barely see any Lace in myself. For example, I'm not into "making love" I like to feel it. I'm not into delicate things... although he did call me a pansy last night and said it's cause i'm a delicate flower (I didn't want to go in to pool)... my ass! I don't like cuddling... there's something about laying in a pool of each others sweat that grosses me out. I guess, if i had to label myself between the two it'd be Leather. I love porn and have a huge collection of toys, and I highly enjoy sex... for sport maybe.. haha. But now with all of this being said am I lacking something? I've always heard that men want the three M's... Martha Stewart in the kitchen (lace), Mary Poppins in the nursery (lace) and Madonna in the bedroom (leather). If this is true, which most guys would probably say "Oh yeah, that sounds nice." Do I lack some of that laciness? I'm not sure, but when I figure it out, I'll let you know. Share with me if you have some thoughts about this... okay? Let me know how you describe Leather and Lace... okay? If you don't want to post here and you know my email addy or IM me... thanks!